Traditionally gender has been the societal way of categorizing sexes into two categories – either man or woman. We see these gendered categories pretty much everywhere from clothing lines, skin care products, characters in film/tv, and in perhaps the most debated category – bathrooms. Generally society has created these two categories as a way to box people into stereotypical roles that make it easier to market to them and to assign attributes that make the individual distinctly one or the other. It’s a way of controlling and maintaining a dated construct because anything fluid or uncategorized creates unpredictability, and for a society that is built on various forms of forecasting and marketing, it would make it significantly more difficult to sell to individuals who don’t fall into one of two categories.
Take for example when you watch a show like House Hunters. Almost every straight cis couple talks in complete sterotypes – the wife always loves to shop and the huband jokes about the closet size, and on the opposite side of the spectrum the husband needs a space for his man cave because he loves sport and beer and how could a woman possibly desecrate that scared ground of masculinity. Of course another area we see this in is the use of pink and blue to signal that an item is either “feminine” or “masculine”. Often with the pink item that’s exactly the same as the blue item, costing more.
Gender is its own hierarchy- with men on top, women below, and everyone who doesn’t identify as either one, being seen as even further below that. Men who were born with male genitalia and identify as men, are in a position of the highest privilege because they get paid more, work in higher positions, have their medical concerns taken seriously, and in cases where they are predatory the shame is thrown at the victim. Women and non binary people are often paid less, and are taken less seriously in the medical community- with pain not being taken seriously or with hysteria so tightly linked to a psychological problem. The obvious reason for this specific male dominated hierarchy is because we currently live in a patriarchal society and as a result the systems in place upholds and supports men who have power. I don’t know how one could decide just how many genders there are, but there are definitely more than two.



