Most people go their whole lives struggling to find their own identity. Identity makes you who you are, it is like the title of a book and you are the story. From the minute we are born, everyone in our lives try to create our identity for us. Our families tell us who we should be, how we should act, what a good career or bad career is. Society itself tries to dictate the type of person you should be. However, identity should be made up of all the experiences one has. The way you think, the way you end up acting, and what makes you happy should be the main components of forming your identity and you alone should be the one to decide who you want to be.